- Clairvoyant, Clairaudient, Clairsentient and Medium?
A clairvoyant is a person who has the ability to see the future and spirit.
A Clairaudient is a person who can hear spirit.
A Clairsentient is a person who can sense spirit and energy vibrations.
A Medium is someone who is able to link with the spirit world and pass messages on from loved ones.
The best psychics have all four of these gifts.
- Emotional Intelligence.
Does your psychic have the ability to perceive, assess and understand their own and other people's emotions? Can they adapt to those emotions in a positive way. to influence people in the right direction?
- Do they have Behavioural Psychology wisdom?
Do they have behavioural knowledge so they can adapt to the different behaviours of people? There a four main behavioural types that each communicate differently.
Think of the people you take in instant dislike to when you first meet them. These people are generally of an opposite behaviour to you.
A great Psychic can recognise different behavioural types and adapt, to increase understanding, communicate more effectively and have better appreciation of others. Also they are less judgemental of other behaviours.
- Good Counsellor?
Is your chosen psychic able to professionally counsel you and give you a variety of solutions to your problems?
Do they treat you with respect and make you feel understood?
Are they able to focus on your problems?
Does your psychic make you feel comfortable and at ease?
Will they give you advice that lets you learn how to deal with your problems in a positive way?
Are they able to support and encourage your self-confidence, so you're able to follow your life path and be in control?
Are they able to help you confront the issues you have in a positive and understanding manner?
Are they defensive and arrogant, or open and non-judgemental?
Do they have substance/physical abuse counselling experience?
Do they have bereavement counselling experience?
A true psychic will not make decisions for you, or tell you what you must do.
Beware of psychic clairvoyants who appear to have issues themselves, i.e They don't have a good word for the opposite sex, or they tell you, you should leave your partner.
Never pay a psychic who tells you, "You're cursed, or surrounded by bad energies," and that they can remove this for you, for an extra fee.
- Solutions to Relationship Problems?
What experience do they have in relationship counselling?
How many years have they been in relationships themselves, to be able to draw on the experiences?
What experience do they have with abusive relationships?
What experience do they have in gay relationships?
What experience do they have when dealing with parent/child relationships?
Are they able to offer ‘real’ solutions to your problems?
- Will they give you bad news?
A good psychic will never tell you that someone's about to die, or that they see an imminent death around you. A good psychic will only give you details of things that are changeable. There’s no point in telling you that someone is going to die, for you to start to grieve early; and anyone who does, doesn’t have your best interests at heart.
A true psychic may raise issues you didn’t want to have to deal with, (e.g. The end of a relationship.) and they may at times, tell you things that you aren’t prepared to accept. So when consulting a psychic, make sure you’re prepared for answers you may not like.
- How accurate are they?
Beware of advertisements that offer ‘FREE’ accurate psychic readings. Naturally gifted, authentic psychics provide their services for a fee, just like doctors, lawyers, accountants, consultants and other professional advisors. They have to earn a living like everyone else.
If you don’t feel your psychic is being very accurate, tell them so. Don’t just sit there letting them tell you a load of information that isn’t relevant. No psychic is 100% accurate, but they should be able to give you enough details and insights for you to connect with what is being given to you.
Can they prove their expertise?
Do they have hundreds of recommendations from people?
Can they provide you with written testimonials, or people to contact, so you can talk to them about how their reading went?
If you’re psychic is on the internet, are they continually adding to their testimonial page?
If you’re visiting a psychic, do they have a client book where people have added their comments for you to see whether or not, this is the right psychic for you?
- Can they read for you, without having to ask you loads of questions?
Beware of someone who gives you general information, then follows the advice with a question. For example, they may say something like… “I see a white cottage, is this your house?” A true psychic will not pump you for information.
- How long has your psychic had their gift and is it a natural gift, or have they been professionally trained?
Ideally they will have had their gift from birth and have also trained with reputable training organisations to enhance their own skills further.
What experiences of life have they had, to be able to give you impartial, sound advice?
• Love
• Marriage
• Divorce
• Sexual Abuse
• Rape
• Physical Abuse
• Mental Abuse
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Do they have a family of their own and expertise with children?
A psychic who's not had to raise children, is unlikely to have had the right kind of experience to be able to give you advice on matters involving parenthood.
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